#7 When failure becomes a necessity.
Lack of self discipline.
Self discipline comes when we realize who we are and be conscious about you, about what you do, about what you think, about what you believe. Once you can control yourself, then you can control others.
There is a point I have been researching on known as emotional intelligence. High EQ is most often as a result of high levels of discipline. Being discipline enough to care for those who love you, being discipline enough to care those who are around you, being discipline enough to mind your language.
Without self discipline, you cannot easily lead people. Cultivate the skill of self discipline and self control or else, failure will be a necessity.